I have often heard the saying, "Comparison is the thief of joy", but as I have been navigating this road of loss and grief, I have noticed how often comparison denies us the opportunity to have true compassion for someone else. Comparison is often well meaning and kind hearted, but when we or someone else compares grief, loss, or other trials and tribulations, it shifts the focus and burden of compassion off of us and minimizes the other person. A few moths ago I had a startling interaction that caused me to pause and reflect on this. A great, well meaning friend said something along these lines, "You thought you had it rough loosing your babies, just imagine being in her shoes.....". I smiled and nodded my head, but inside I was crushed. Without going into specifics, the other woman unquestionably has some great difficulties ahead of her, but she didn't have to burry any of her children. How could the 2 circumstances possibly be compared? After the frie...
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I don't know why, but O has a sudden allergic reaction to the camera, or fit of shyness whenever we try to do a family pic. When it is just her, she'll pose for a few seconds and then, usually before the picture is taken, start for the camera asking to see. Keep fighting the good fight M.
Eventually you'll get some good ones. Besides, if you actually had one where EVERYONE was looking at the camera it would just be weird. I mean, WHO actually has a FP with little kids and they are ALL looking at the camera?